i posted this question on the ttc board, and just got advice on how to ttc...which is NOT what i'm looking for.(i guess i didn't phrase the question well! lol)
.i have decided to stop trying to concieve (after yrs of trying and even taking fertility meds)..i feel it's unrealistic to try anymore and i can't cope with the disappointment every month.
i feel bitter and disapointed and depressed that i will never have a child.
my question is :
how do i overcome the feelings of bitterness and disappointment?
thanks!
Answer:
It's not easy dealing with something you want so badly in your heart of hearts when it seems like its a million miles out of reach. It hurts each day you think about it. Try writing you feelings in a journal for a while and talking to your partner, how does he feel? Both of you must be hurting deep in your soul. My writing keeps me from loosing my mind when people think their helping with their worldly advice. Try it if that doesn't help seek counseling that might work. Good luck! :) Justina
i don't know how you feel but i lost a baby once and it was awful the only thing i can say is talk about you feelings to anybody that will listen to you the more you talk the easier it will be come by the way god is a realy good listner and you can talk to him any time day or night.
may god hold you in the palm of his hand
korkie
I'm sorry for what you are going through. Recognize that the process you are going through is a form of grief. There is not really any way to short cut through grief, but you can keep making progress by deciding to accept how you feel, when you experience the negative feelings. It is also possible to choose to expand other experiences, find distractions, get out and do new things, meet new people. Resolve to treat yourself with the tenderloving care you deserve. You can say goodbye to old dreams while learning how to create new dreams for yourself.
Blessings in this journey!
I know a doctor in San Diego who has helped a women just like yourself who had tried and tried to have a baby.The docors said there was nothing wrong with the mother but for some reason she could not conceive. After a few sessions with Dr. Liu she was able to conceive a child. It was amazing.
Dr. Liu does not use any medication or needles. He practices Eastern and Western medicine, basically all you do is lie down and listen to music. It is very ralxing and very beneficial. Check out his website @ www.bmtheals.com
Let me know what you think.
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